Chipping Away Everything That’s Not You

A new book by Kristin Abbajay

Over the last 30 years, through her own transformation and work with others, Kristin has discovered something simple but powerful:

We add a lot to ourselves that was never really us.

This book is about beginning to notice that…
and gently chipping it away.

Who or what has been determining what you say you are?
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What You’ll Leave With

This isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about seeing what’s already there… and letting go of what isn’t.

A clearer understanding of how you came to define yourself
Awareness of the “conversations” that shaped your identity
A new way to question what you’ve always believed about yourself
Space to separate what’s truly you from what was added over time
A grounded, personal approach to growth that comes from within

About Kristin

Kristin Abbajay is a Grand Reiki Master, meditation facilitator, and intuitive coach.
For over 30 years, she has worked in personal development, ontology (the study of being), and energy work—leading conversations and guiding people through transformation. Her work is rooted in one thing:
She sees who people truly are…
and helps them remove everything that isn’t that.

This book is the result of her own journey, and over a decade of writing.

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